People have the wrong concept of gothism (as I call it). Most people believe that people who wear black, crucify rodents, watch Tim Burton movies (he's a genius, by the way), and listen to Marilyn Manson are goths. Not true! I do all of these things (often at the same time), and I'm the opposite of goth. Wait, I don't remember where I was going with this. Um, okay, essentially, let people be the way they want to be or the way they are, and don't label them or create stereotypes. That's my suggestion.