I know that judging someone is all part of human nature. But what I noticed is I would get offended by someone saying "You look ugly", "That shirt is ugly", "Your a dork", things like that. What I noticed is if you continue to let things like what someone said about you get to you, its going to control you throughout your life. I just thought and said to myself, "Who cares what they have to say". With this all these things some individual said and not caring what they said about me, or what they think of me, it stopped controlling how I would act, look, and dress. Because now I can be myself without caring about some individual who cant have nothing better to say than "Your a dork".